When everyone's heart is wide open, raw, no matter what message you send it will be heard. With great care choose what message you send.
This is the message I choose:
Matthew 11:25-30
Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.